Problem with node.js and sql server

Hello, I have one Cpanel L and i have one problem. I have create a bot discord.js and i need to connect at my SQL server (mmsql) who is on one VPS (vps at contabo) But if i start node index.js i have this error : originalError: ConnectionError: Failed to connect to 161.97.148.108:1433 - Could not connect (sequence) at ConnectionError (/home/cp1651852p08/nodevenv/bot-discord/crazy-ddtank.com/14/lib/node_modules/tedious/lib/errors.js:13:12) at Connection.socketError (/home/cp1651852p08/nodevenv/bot-discord/crazy-ddtank.com/14/lib/node_modules/tedious/lib/connection.js:1641:56) at /home/cp1651852p08/nodevenv/bot-discord/crazy-ddtank.com/14/lib/node_modules/tedious/lib/connection.js:1400:21 at SequentialConnectionStrategy.connect (/home/cp1651852p08/nodevenv/bot-discord/crazy-ddtank.com/14/lib/node_modules/tedious/lib/connector.js:129:14) at Socket.onError (/home/cp1651852p08/nodevenv/bot-discord/crazy-ddtank.com/14/lib/node_modules/tedious/lib/connector.js:149:12) at Socket.emit (events.js:315:20) at emitErrorNT (internal/streams/destroy.js:106:8) at emitErrorCloseNT (internal/streams/destroy.js:74:3) at processTicksAndRejections (internal/process/task_queues.js:80:21) { code: 'ESOCKET'
How to connect at my sql server please. PS : it working on my local computer a remote access. Please help me